Wednesday, January 14, 2015

Beanie on Top!

Repeat after me...

"I do not look stupid in a beanie."
"I do not look stupid in a beanie."
"I do not look stupid in a beanie."

Stop. Hush your pretty mouth. Say it again. "I do not look stupid in a beanie."

Do you know how many times I hear "I wish I could wear a hat like that!" every time I wear a beanie? At least 5 times.  And that is a lot considering I wear one at least twice a week.

You should love all "head wear", hats, beanies, head wraps, etc. Why?  Because they give you something that you crave alllllll weeeeek long. TIME.  No, I have not lost my mind, hear me out!  I plan to wear a hat, headband, beanie, etc at least once during the week and pretty much all weekend long.  Because that means I don't have to wash my hair and fix it on that third day.  I wash my hair every 3-4 days.  So for example, this week I washed it on Monday.  I got two good days out of my wash and styling, but today on Wednesday, I am rocking a beanie.  Usually by Wednesday, I am so tired because Monday and Tuesdays are our busiest evenings. And on Wednesday, I have one more kid going to school as Bree only goes Wed- Fri.  So this morning, like every Wednesday morning, I did not want to get out of bed, and I laid there doing the math in my head deciding when I HAVE to get up so I can get the kids to school on time.  My saving grace and what got me FIFTEEN extra minutes? My beanie.  I knew that I did not have to fix my hair today and just wear one.  Do you know how much FIFTEEN minutes means to a working mama getting ready in the morning with three kids? It is pure gold.

So. Why don't you wear hats and head wear? I bet because you think you look stupid, right? Or you think that your head is too big...or too little...or your hair does not look right...or you don't even have one you like. Or you think you look like you are trying to be a hipster. Come on. I know you have said that.  I did too once. But you have to get over it. Every time I see a woman in a cute beanie or head wrap, I think "kudos to you mama, you are adorable!". I never think "nice try mama, you are not a hipster.".

Let's just talk beanies for a sec because I feel like that is the hardest one to wear for most people.  To me though, they are the easiest and most comfortable.  I was apprehensive at first, but I try to go into trends with the mindset of "outside of showing too much skin, embarrassing my kids and Shane, or being uncomfortable, there is not ANYTHING I won't try at least once".  I bought one from Savoir Faire (my tan one I wear ALL the time still and that was over 2 years ago) and started scouring instagram and pinterest. I would look at how the models wore them on the boutique pages and I would look at fashion blogs.  Then I just wore it.  I literally put it on how they did, tried not to look in the mirror too long and left the house.  That is the key.  The first time you wear something that you KNOW is cute on everyone else and you want to try, just do it and walk away. DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT stare at yourself in the mirror and over analyze it. Because you know what you will do - take it off and then be pissed because you now have hat hair and only 2 mins before you need to leave. Right? Just walk away and see how many compliments you get. And I bet, you will catch a glimpse of yourself in your rear view mirror and think "Damn. I am cute today!". If not, send me a pic and I will tell you how cute you are :). AND, with these frigid temps - your head and ears will be so cozy :).

How do I wear mine? I wear it to the side a bit, scrunch it so it is not sticking up on my head and show some hair so I don't feel bald. Like this...

So, what do you say? Would you try it? At least once for me?  Then maybe you will be on the "I get to skip washing my hair one more day train!". And you look super cute and fashionable...with dirty hair and some extra sleep :).  How is that for a #suburbanstrutrefresh - you just refreshed yourself with a new trend, your day to day slump of outfits choices, and with the chance of extra sleep!

Tag me if you try it - love you pretty ladies!!!! xoxoxo

PS - here are some headwear links - Savoir Faire, Impressions, and F21.

PSS - Next post - hopefully this week - lipstick!!!

1 comment:

  1. You're so stinkin' cute! I bought a pom-pom beanie the other day, and have yet to wear it. Maybe you've inspired me...


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